Avoid the 10 most dangerous dating mistakes men make
Creating a Good Profile Messaging Thoughtfully Meeting the New Date Community Q&A If you're not having much success with online dating and you're a man, you're probably making the same mistakes over and over again.
Nowadays, women are bombarded by men every day on dating sites, and have learned how to filter out the creeps, weirdos, and plain boring guys.
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy” Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted “nice” guys? Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”… Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”. Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval. Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her… When you do these things, you send a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
When you put all the pressure on a woman to lead theinteraction and do all the talking she will get annoyedand leave.
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MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction. Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to ing her, getting physical... If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.